Helping Your College-Bound Teen Find Student Housing

One of the largest worries that parents of high school graduates face is their child going off to college. However, it is not only parents that worry about their child, children worry about going off to college as well. Living on your own is both exciting and scary so parents should help to make their teen find student housing.

When you are looking at housing options with your teen it is important to remember all of your options. While you may have enjoyed living the dorms as a college freshmen, your child may not feel the same way. Living in the dorms is not the only option that teens have anymore when it comes to student housing. Look at available off campus apartments online that your child could rent with friends or with fellow students. While you may think that your child will not be as successful in school if they are living with their friends, remember that it will take dedication and responsibility on your child’s part to get through school no matter where they are living.

If your child is interested in living in the dorms, make sure that you help them to determine what type of roommate they would want. Your child will have to live with this person for almost a year, so when the housing department asks about your child’s preferences, be honest. If your child works nights, see if they could be matched with another student who has a similar schedule. After your child has been assigned a roommate encourage your teen to communicate through email, internet, or over the phone that way living together will seem more comfortable.

Helping Your College Bound Teen Find Student Housing

Sarah Long loves her son Steven and wants him to have a wonderful time at college, while getting a good education. However, she remembers her succession of wild college roommates and wants him to live in a quiet apartment, alone.

Steven wants to live as close to campus as possible with as much freedom as possible. He does not want to waste these precious college years living with too many restrictions.

Parenting an older teen can be like walking a parenting tightrope: granting just enough freedom for the young adult to grow into a responsible individual while providing enough protection to ensure the child’s safety. Sarah turned to the Internet for advice and found several sites that described suitable apartments in Atlanta, even for an single college student with a limited budget.

Sarah and Steven checked out several Atlanta apartments and found a one bedroom flat close to Steven’s school, with covered parking, internet, furnished, and affordable. Sarah was thrilled it was in a safe neighborhood and close to shopping; Steven was happy it was within walking distance of a couple of famous college haunts.

Using technology, the Long family found a place for their student to live that met his mother’s desire for his health and safety and his desire to be close to campus and student life. His new apartment should give him the opportunity to explore the fun of campus life when he wants excitement and still give him peace and quiet when it is time to buckle down and study.

You Never Know Who’s Friending Your Child on Facebook

When Facebook was first launched, it was a social networking tool exclusively for college students. A university email was required to sign up, and it allowed the college crowd to find classmates, friends they met at parties, and stay in touch with students from other schools. Over the years, Facebook has changed to become a cultural phenomenon of the highest order. Anyone can create a Facebook page now — even kids. But is Facebook safe for the younger generations? The same predators that have stalked children in chat rooms can now friend them on Facebook.

It’s possible to filter your computer so that websites such as Facebook are not accessible by your child, but it’s a tricky situation. Facebook has the potential to be a very positive experience for children. They’re able to connect with their friends and share their opinions in an open forum. If you’re not inclined to completely blocking Facebook privileges from your child, there are other options you can consider.

  • Facebook offers customizable privacy settings. You can help your child choose the privacy settings you find most appropriate and hope they adhere to those settings. For example, you can modify the settings so that your child cannot be tagged in photos or so people who are not your child’s Facebook friend cannot see his or her page.
  • Have a conversation with your child. Explain to your child dangers presented online. Facebook allows its users to post their hometowns, phone numbers and current locations. Explain to your child that that means anyone looking at his or her page can know all that information.
  • Invest in an Internet filtering program that alerts the parent when inappropriate language or content is used or viewed.